Apparently Slavery Doesn't Exist

We've received some encouragement from some outsiders to do some sort of Christmas production.  The idea has been thrown around before but as sometimes happens around here it ends up being put on the youth to really make it happen.  While that can be exhausting and quite frankly, annoying at times, I must admit it makes me personally proud of them.  When it really comes time to get things done oftentimes it takes our young people to do it... and they do it o' so well.

Because our ministry is inherently relational (big thanks to our strong partnership with Young Life) most of the events our church puts on must have a direct impact on outsiders.  That's what keeps us moving missionally.  If we think everyone's a missionary then that's how they'll be treated.  So when we (we meaning the youth and adults of our church) started planning a Christmas show we decided it would be a fundraiser.  We'd sell tickets, drinks, and snacks and put half of that money in the youth account and send half of it to a charity that our youth vote on.  That's where the fun began...

We showed them 3 different charities over the course of 3 weeks.  At the end they'd vote on the one they wanted to support.  Each of them were a little different but focused on children and teens like them.  Our sort of secondary teaching aim was for them to work through an understanding of how fortunate they are.  That's not always an easy thing since some of our youth are living in pretty difficult circumstances.  We also wanted to be sure, as always, that we are showing them quality videos and resources that could hold their attention, not just a bunch of poorly produced junk.  That's where the problem was...

First we showed them the following clip from Invisible Children who seek to end the use of child soldiers in Central Africa.  Invisible Children was one of the first charities to actually put together quality marketing to get across their message.  While lots of cynics have complained about some of their antics (at one time they got in trouble with the Better Business Bureau, they have since righted that ship) they have helped lead a charge in more artistic use of video, clothing, and more.  Maybe I'm wrong, but I think that helps.  It helps when almost once a month I see someone wearing a Kony2012 shirt, ask them if they know much about it, and they do.  Without that cool shirt they'd know nothing.



Second we found a great clip for children from World Vision.  While Invisible Children focused on a very specific situation, World Vision tries to tackle things on a larger scale.  They're use of a puzzle helped a lot of kids understand what they do.  They were even able to recreate it without review.

Lastly, we tried to bring attention to human trafficking since it is a major part of our church's denominational global missionary efforts.  Because it is apparently impossible to find a short video on Human Trafficking that is age-appropriate (we don't need 7 year olds having nightmares or anything) and our denomination... they're kind of... well... let's just say we've put more resources into people and practical work than technology, we used a cool interactive website... www.slaveryfootprint.org  We took one of them and they answered all the questions and we found out that it takes 38 slaves a year to produce all the things they use or eat in a week.

As we were discussing this last one we had the most interesting conversation.  We asked what it would be like to work 20 hours a day on a shrimp boat.  One of our middle schoolers responded, "Yea, but that's okay, they're still getting paid for it."  Needless to say the definition of slave might have been missed here.  I went back over what a slave is and the difficulties their lives entail.  Upon hearing that, a few of them (not all) start to say, "Well I don't really believe that."

Woa.  What?  Wait a minute.  You don't believe there are slaves in the world?  We just did this really cool interactive slavery footprint thing.  We just talked about the work of Mylinda Bates and how our church supports her and others.  And most of all, I'm the freaking youth pastor!  Aren't you supposed to be agree with what I say?

Clearly that last question is rhetorical.  We've pushed for honest and transparent dialogue with our students since I've been here.  They know we encourage them to be honest and state their skepticism if they have it.  We'll stop there, see if we can work through it, and finish up a curriculum another day.  Every question is honored.

However, on this day I knew there wasn't anything I could do.  There wasn't anything any of us could have done.  We didn't have any pictures.  Its something I already knew.  Its the reason I spent hours trying to find a video describing modern day slavery.  Our young people live in a world of increasing doubt and skepticism.  Our hearts have been broken by promises big and small from public figures and loved ones.  

guess we should have shown a bunch of these

From now on, if you say you rode that roller coaster we need a picture to prove it.  You say you had your first kiss?  We need an Instagram to prove it.  Facebook posts don't prove anything.  You seriously want us to believe you scored a touchdown?  Where's the Vine to back it up.  You're telling me that slavery is still real?  Where's the YouTube?  (Sadly there are plenty of YouTubes out there but they simply didn't pass our age-appropriate screenings.)

While our students are doing the right thing by asking questions, its not a necessarily healthy thing (IMHO) to question everything and everyone.  Granted, some think its a necessary defense mechanism.  But I have to stop and think about all the assistance and community people miss out on because they were too anxious to say, "Thank you."  And how many of us miss out on love and community because we're afraid every neighbor is an axe murderer?

Keep asking questions young people.  Continue to find ways to bring healing to the world.  And if part of that is bringing hope to the world, then start by being hopeful of each other.

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Smacking Cheesecake #16:  Make a candy corn cheesecake,
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My Beef with Beth Moore

Well, not so much a beef as it is standing up for the rest of us.  Anytime I have something critical to say about someone else and/or their work I always feel the need to butter it up first.  Obviously since nobody's perfect then we can also say that nobody's totally imperfect either.  We have much to learn from everyone.  But for some justified reason I feel emboldened to point out what's always bothered me about Beth Moore.  Put yourself out in the public limelight, expect to have public shots taken.  And this is a particularly "public" issue.

Its not mud-slinging its more like pie in the face.

To tell you the truth I've always admired and appreciated Beth Moore's work.  Twenty books that I know firsthand get people excited to study their Bibles is nothing to sneeze at.  Its one of those things that generally puts me at odds with my mainline and progressive counterparts.  She writes them with a sense of humility and reverence every time.  The theology is predictably LifeWay and Southern Baptist whereas many things are cast into us vs. them analogies but really, what do we expect?  Is there space to survey various Biblically rooted ideas then have your take?  Not really.  You know where Beth is going but you're not really pressured to take her side.

So here's the thing that finally put me over the top:

Here's a woman in her 50s, perfectly platinum blonde hair, not a wrinkle to find and she's telling us (in particularly women) to say goodbye to insecurity?  Hello Beth?  You're not part of the solution here, you're part of the problem.

I came upon this book because of Youth Worker Journal's highlight of the teen version.  I was excited because we're building a little youth group here and we have a handful of girls all in the early stages of adolescence.  My prayers are already beginning to bend in the direction of their self-confidence and assurance as gossip and unnecessary comparisons begin to become the norm in their peer groups.  Knowing what I know about Beth's previous work I got a little excited knowing she'd probably have them searching through various empowering situations in Scripture that they can, in fact, say, "So long, Insecurity."

We have a pretty diverse group of youth and we're proud of that.  But we also realize that our multiple mixed race and diverse girls are still pressured by a society that still thinks of the classic Barbie doll as the goal for them.  Just as Beth says in the interview with YWJournal:

Fifty years ago, women had dramatically smaller communities of other women to which to compare themselves. Suddenly we were hit with an ever-increasing barrage of images from every conceivable direction. Of course, screens aren't the only places we're inundated. Magazine covers, billboards, album covers and storefronts make tremendous contributions. We can't escape all these sources, but we need to call out the impact these constant images and unreasonable ideals are having on us.

I'm just wondering if Beth happened to think about that fact when she put her face on the cover of the adult version of the book.  Now other 50 year old women can joyfully compare themselves with the author who sets the example we all follow.

Just to get a general idea of what I'm talking about here's another illustration:

 

This is the orginal and digitally enhanced photo of Sydney woman Deborah Luckie. Much like Beth Moore at the time her "So Long, Insecurity" book was published Deborah is 50 years old.  Actually, this little slideshow show's plenty of millionaire celebrities showing wrinkles.  Hek, Beth's got them all beat.

I haven't had to deal with anywhere near the PR process Beth Moore has.  From my first time preaching at the mere age of 18 I've been encouraged, had outlined, or right out demanded of me what to wear or how to do my hair.  Generally its so as not to draw attention to the wrong things and that's good.  That's in fact Biblical.

We were hoping to send our girls to a young ladies conference sometime next year.  The conference is affiliated with Women of Faith which isn't run by Beth Moore but its part of her cohort.  She may make an appearance.  To tell you the truth I'll probably still try to send our girls there mostly because of the absolute dearth of options available to us.  Its just going to be another stress knowing that when our girls sit to listen to women who have been given extraordinary gifts of God and have used them well our youth will have to wonder if given the same gifts and hard work they'll one day be one that stage... so long as they can look the part.

I digress...

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.                                                                                      (1 Peter 3:3-4)

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