Wednesday, August 21, 2013

My Beef with Beth Moore

Well, not so much a beef as it is standing up for the rest of us.  Anytime I have something critical to say about someone else and/or their work I always feel the need to butter it up first.  Obviously since nobody's perfect then we can also say that nobody's totally imperfect either.  We have much to learn from everyone.  But for some justified reason I feel emboldened to point out what's always bothered me about Beth Moore.  Put yourself out in the public limelight, expect to have public shots taken.  And this is a particularly "public" issue.


Its not mud-slinging its more like pie in the face.
To tell you the truth I've always admired and appreciated Beth Moore's work.  Twenty books that I know firsthand get people excited to study their Bibles is nothing to sneeze at.  Its one of those things that generally puts me at odds with my mainline and progressive counterparts.  She writes them with a sense of humility and reverence every time.  The theology is predictably LifeWay and Southern Baptist whereas many things are cast into us vs. them analogies but really, what do we expect?  Is there space to survey various Biblically rooted ideas then have your take?  Not really.  You know where Beth is going but you're not really pressured to take her side.

So here's the thing that finally put me over the top:


Here's a woman in her 50s, perfectly platinum blonde hair, not a wrinkle to find and she's telling us (in particularly women) to say goodbye to insecurity?  Hello Beth?  You're not part of the solution here, you're part of the problem.

I came upon this book because of Youth Worker Journal's highlight of the teen version.  I was excited because we're building a little youth group here and we have a handful of girls all in the early stages of adolescence.  My prayers are already beginning to bend in the direction of their self-confidence and assurance as gossip and unnecessary comparisons begin to become the norm in their peer groups.  Knowing what I know about Beth's previous work I got a little excited knowing she'd probably have them searching through various empowering situations in Scripture that they can, in fact, say, "So long, Insecurity."

We have a pretty diverse group of youth and we're proud of that.  But we also realize that our multiple mixed race and diverse girls are still pressured by a society that still thinks of the classic Barbie doll as the goal for them.  Just as Beth says in the interview with YWJournal:
Fifty years ago, women had dramatically smaller communities of other women to which to compare themselves. Suddenly we were hit with an ever-increasing barrage of images from every conceivable direction. Of course, screens aren't the only places we're inundated. Magazine covers, billboards, album covers and storefronts make tremendous contributions. We can't escape all these sources, but we need to call out the impact these constant images and unreasonable ideals are having on us.
I'm just wondering if Beth happened to think about that fact when she put her face on the cover of the adult version of the book.  Now other 50 year old women can joyfully compare themselves with the author who sets the example we all follow.

Just to get a general idea of what I'm talking about here's another illustration:
The original and processed photos side by side. 
This is the orginal and digitally enhanced photo of Sydney woman Deborah Luckie. Much like Beth Moore at the time her "So Long, Insecurity" book was published Deborah is 50 years old.  Actually, this little slideshow show's plenty of millionaire celebrities showing wrinkles.  Hek, Beth's got them all beat.

I haven't had to deal with anywhere near the PR process Beth Moore has.  From my first time preaching at the mere age of 18 I've been encouraged, had outlined, or right out demanded of me what to wear or how to do my hair.  Generally its so as not to draw attention to the wrong things and that's good.  That's in fact Biblical.

We were hoping to send our girls to a young ladies conference sometime next year.  The conference is affiliated with Women of Faith which isn't run by Beth Moore but its part of her cohort.  She may make an appearance.  To tell you the truth I'll probably still try to send our girls there mostly because of the absolute dearth of options available to us.  Its just going to be another stress knowing that when our girls sit to listen to women who have been given extraordinary gifts of God and have used them well our youth will have to wonder if given the same gifts and hard work they'll one day be one that stage... so long as they can look the part.

I digress...
Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.                                                                                      (1 Peter 3:3-4)

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